My final thoughts

Well, my year of celebrating has come to an end and I wanted to share a few thoughts about my "experiment". Honestly, I think it was one of the best things I could have done with my life and it has been an incredible journey.

What started out as "I just want to challenge myself" turned out to be something so much more. God used "THE LIST" (as my friends and I refer to it) to work issues out in me, heal me, occupy me, distract me, push me to my limits, and show me things about myself and others that perhaps I would have not otherwise seen. For that, I am forever changed.

This year has been full of challenges. My dad was diagnosed with metastatic cancer and he had been fighting the battle of his life, as the daughter living the closest (and as a medical provider) it has been hard to switch hats between clinician and daughter, the ups and the downs of cancer treatment are so difficult on the family. My dearest and closest uncle passed away suddenly in March requiring me to go to Florida only a few days before my trip to Ethiopia. Honestly, the timing was God ordained as I was blessed to be able to be there to support my Aunt, and my sister and her kids were already in FL for vacation....God was so good to us such a sorrowful time. I acquired an illness in Ethiopia and returned with it and it lingered longer than I had anticipated, which prevented me from doing some of the things I wanted to do in the early summer. Then Fourth of July weekend, I sustained an injury to my foot by falling into a stupid MOLE HOLE ! That injury has lasted all the way until the present time and required surgery. But God has been faithful and I believe that "THE LIST" kept me sane during some of the darkest and most painful times of this past year.....it kept me moving forward, kept me pressing on! Despite all the things happening to me, I knew I had to finish the list and illness or not, foot injury or not, even my dad's illness (he would tell me to go and do things) did not prevent me from working on the list. The List kept me moving forward. "Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus" Philippians 3:12-14.

I recently saw "Eat, Pray, Love" and although the spiritual thoughts in the movie are not the same as my Christan beliefs, I believe that there are some basic spiritual principles that are true that people should glean. Eat.....well, this year has been a LITTLE too good to me on that front! I think I'm the only person who goes to Ethiopia and GAINS weight!....but oh, the food was so good. Pray.......During this year, my spiritual walk continues to grow. I have continued to work on my issue of "letting go" and letting God lead me. One thing I realize is that this is not a one time event, it is a continual process and I have to do it over and over and over again. But on a daily basis I'm ready to jump and leap--just like the trapeze or the repelling-- when God tells me, I'm listening and I will have faith that He knows what is best for my life. Love....well, I was hoping that this year would bring me a husband and maybe some kids. I know, I know I'm being ridiculous but a girl can hope can't she !? But what God continued to show me is that I have Love all around me and that just because I don't have those things does not mean that I'm not loved.......LOVE IS.......the children who want to hold your hand and play with you in Ethiopia, the patient who writes you a thank you letter because you kept her grounded on a day that she thought she was going to lose it, people who lift you up in prayer, friends who take shifts to care for you after surgery, a friend who did half of "THE LIST" with you.......and the list goes on and on and on in of examples in my head.

God knows the desires of my heart, but I'm glad that in the meantime I'm not consumed by lack of them. That He has filled my life with so many good things, for that....I am grateful.

This past year has been so wonderful, I'm actually sad to see it end. I did "The List" so that I would not be sad about turning 40 and the only thing that I'm upset about is that the list is complete. People ask, "So what are you going to do now that the list is done?" Well, I have decided to have an open ended list. A list of "Things I've never thought about doing but now I've done ....." Without a deadline, there is a lot less pressure, but still it is always fun to try new things, experience new things and LIVE LIFE ABUNDANTLY!!!! "The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly" John 10:10. For that is what God wants for his children, that is why he sent his son Jesus...it is the way that I should live my life. Not just because I'm turning 40 but every day. I'm thankful for this lesson.....I'm thankful for His never ending love, grace, support and mercy.

#40 Renting lake house with friends

#40, the final thing on the list......I have never rented a cabin or anything like that and gone away with friends before, so I thought it would be the perfect thing to do to celebrate my 40th birthday.

I hunted and hunted for a place that could fit a good number of friends that would not totally wipe me out financially (although my friends graciously kicked in toward the cost of the place)....as "the list" has cost me quite a bit this year. Since some of my friends were coming from a distance I also had to think of a location that might make it easier for some of them, and I wanted it to be on one of the finger lakes. Plus, I did not want to be at a lake house that was right on top of neighbors....yes I had lots of specifications I had to meet.

BUT, I finally found a place on Seneca lake, Secluded Shores. And let me tell you......I was NOT disappointed. I had only seen it in the photographs online, but it was perfect! You had to go down a long gravel road to get to the house, and the neighbors were not close at all. The view......AMAZING! We were right over the lake and the covered deck around the house was the hit of the house and the place to be.

I only could have a certain number of friends that could be invited, which was the most difficult thing about the weekend as I had so many people who I would have loved to have join me.

The weekend started with my parents coming for the first night as most of my friends could not come until the next day. One of my Best friends and my God-daughter arrived late that night from Albany, so my birthday morning started BRIGHT and EARLY with a camera flashing in my face capturing my major bed-headed hair as she sang happy birthday and baby giggled away.

Another friend arrived late that morning and a friend from Boston arrived at lunchtime. It was an absolutely beautiful day.....unusually hot and sunny, but there was a wonderful breeze. Just relaxing, listening to the lake, enjoying the sunshine with friends was a terrific way to spend a lazy birthday afternoon.

For my birthday dinner, we met up with 2 more friends at the Moosewood in Ithaca. A terrific vegetarian restaurant, then we all returned back to the lake for my mom's famous "disappearing chocolate cake" with all 40 candles for me to blow out!

Saturday, the girls all went hiking at Watkins glen. I went along for the first little bit for a photo shoot, but due to my recent foot surgery I obviously could go no further so K and I took the little one back to the house for nap time--ha ha!!....she had no intention of napping.....

Then it was off to Wagner Winery for lunch and start our wine touring. We did tasting there and at Lamoreaux Landing Wine Cellars (http://www.lamoreauxwine.com/) , Leidenfrost Vineyards, and Atwater Estate Vineyards (http://www.atwatervineyards.com/). My favorites were Lamoreaux and Atwater.

Back at the lake house it was more relaxing out on the waters edge with wonderful snacks and conversation, until the wind kicked up and we had to retreat inside....then everyone disappeared to different corners of the house for nap time until dinner.

After a wonderful dinner, the sadness of saying goodbyes to some of the girls started as a few had to depart early.......taking us down to only 3 for the night.

The weekend was fun, I wish that I had been in perfect health so I could have been more active and engaging and peppy. I think that movies sometimes ruin things for real life. We watch them and they portray these perfect stories of how things should go, and unless they are a comedy they don't show: the grill that won't light, the stove burner that won't heat, the fact that my foot was swollen and I had to go home "NOW" and put it up or it would explode, baby needing a nap (or her poopy diapers), people being tired from their every day lives and just needing a break and crashing, that the wind was too much for the campfire thus no smores, wine tasting was enough---who needs to come back and drink more--we are old and that just makes us more tired. Movies just make you expect that everything will be perfect and that when a group of women go away together they will laugh, and giggle, and drink wine, eat food, play games.....perfect.

But one thing I have come to realize this past year (although I think I already knew it), Life is hardly perfect and I need to not be disappointed when it is not. I need to accept the beautiful moments that I DO have, the friendships that I DO have, the love that I DO have, the experiences that I HAVE had, and the life that I DO have for God has blessed me with so many wonderful people in my life.....this weekend solidified that. My friends are amazing, I love them so very much. I am so thankful that they could end this year of Living Life Abundantly with me and celebrate my turning 40 with me. They are truly a blessing to my life.

#37 Up, up and away--3rd times the Charm

#37 was to go on a hot air balloon ride. I got the idea a few years ago when a friend and I went to the Dansville Hot Air Balloon Festival. We talked about it and said "We should do that to celebrate our 40th birthdays"......so here it is, my 40th birthday.....and I'm going to do it!

I originally planned to make this the finale, the last thing that I did but after getting the lecture on how many flights don't happen due to weather, and then having to have foot surgery scheduled 10 days before my birthday, the flight had to be moved up a number of weeks.

I went with Liberty Balloon Company http://www.libertyballoon.com as I am friends with one of the family members who works within the company, so I knew it was a good company to fly with.

Attempt #1 (yes, there were multiple attempts) 8/21/10 was a 6am flight where I was going to do a flight over Letchworth State Park. Do you know what time you have to get up to be in Castile at 6am??? EARLY!!! The weather that morning was not beautiful, but we were going to attempt the launch. The poor guys set up the balloon, got us in it then wrestled it for a bit (as we got a foot off the ground) and as a 5 year old passenger screamed bloody murder the pilot decided that the weather was too marginal for a flight. Was I upset? Surprisingly no.....I had a sense of peace and calmness. First off, I'm all about being safe. I did NOT want to be up in a balloon on a marginal semi cloudy and windy day where we have to worry about landing and having the basket tip over. Second, did I really want to have to listen to a terrified little girl who really was too young for such a thing? I still had time to re-schedule....I knew we would have a good day for it when the time came. I trusted the pilot 100%.....So, we packed up and all went out for breakfast instead!

Attempt #2 9/5/10 This time I met up with the pilot and crew at the Dansville Balloon Festival in the hopes of launching for an evening flight with all the other balloons. The day had been rather "iffy" weather wise, but the winds seemed to be calming down and the sun was coming out. We were hopeful that the flight would go off. After waiting and hoping, they cancelled the flights for that evening and once again my plans were thwarted. Well, I thought....I have one weekend left....it will have to be next weekend or I'll have to come up with plan B. But rather than pout and cry,and stomp my foot (I cant stomp my feet, I only have one good foot-haha), we packed up and went to dinner!


Attempt #3 9/11/10....6:30 in the morning, beautiful sunrise, crisp air, slight fog over Conesus Lake. The launch was from Deer Creek Winery and it went off........without a hitch! It was the Pilot, myself and another passenger.

So what is it like? Floating.......serene........peaceful.....gliding......beautiful....breathtaking

The most amazing moment was when we saw the reflection of the balloon in the fog/cloud. At first glance, when it was not complete, it looked like an angel to me, but then it formed the shape of the balloon with the rainbow around it---absolutely spectacular!

So if everything happens for a reason, what was the reason that my launches kept getting thwarted? Well, I think there are a number of reasons. Some of which I can share and some of which are personal and between God and myself.

First off, God is ALWAYS working on me in the area of patience (NOT my strong suit)....so making me wait...well that's just the kind of thing that I need to do sometimes. Second, The day that the launch happened was a beautiful weather day, the sun was shining--to me, it was what I had visioned in my head that the balloon ride would be like....if we went up on the "marginal" day, well I would have been disappointed. Finally the day of the balloon ride and rest 9/11 came at a perfect time. After the balloon ride I ended up having breakfast with friends, going horseback riding, coming back to the city getting a pedicure, later making myself home-made lasagna and renting a moving and vegging on the couch. It was an exhausting day, but a great day. A day full of fun, a day of forgetting all that I "had" to do to prepare for my upcoming foot surgery, forgetting my responsibilities.

If only I remembered to take more days like that on a regular basis. Why does God have to use something like this to make it so evident to me that I needed it? I guess it means that I have something to work on, but then again....dont we all.

#39 Rosh Hashanah at Shema

Essentially this was my last task on the list (because the final thing, #40 will coincide with the actual celebration of my 40th birthday). Honestly I can't think of a better way to to essentially end "The List".

I have wanted to go to the Messianic Temple here in Rochester, Shema Yisrael,(http://www.shemayisrael.org/) for services for a long while, but have been waiting for a special occasion and I thought what better than to go during "The holidays".

I really was not sure what to expect as I have never been to a Torah service before. Really, it was not that much different than a church service except some of the things were in Hebrew....which made it beautiful and rich. There was dancing and singing, the Shofar (a special trumpet) was blown... as Rosh Hasahanah is a time of celebration, it is the New Year. A day of shouting in Joy to the Lord, remembering the day of creation, remembering the Lord, remembering the past year--both good and bad.

The reason that God wanted me to celebrate Rosh Hashanah at Shema was for me to hear the message. You see, Rosh hashanah begins the Days of Awe, the 10 days between now and Yom Kippur (the Day of Atonement). It is a time to remember our own unworthiness and His sacrifice. A time to soften our heart, uncover sin (even that which we don't even know that we have), awaken us from our slumber...... "God show Me the things that you want me to change" . Why do we need to atone for these sins despite that fact that Jesus already made the ultimate sacrifice for us? 1) our walk with the Lord will not go forward unless we grow 2) We wont bear fruit 3) We will reap what we sow.

He then focused a lot on bitterness and how it is a dangerous root causing trouble and contaminating many. The spirits that attach itself to bitterness are unforgiveness, resentment, retaliation, anger, wrath, hatred, and violence. How much of that is going around me all the time? How much of that might be in my own heart? What things might I be holding onto some bitterness about?........ BUT.....there is hope, there is ammunition. FORGIVENESS. When we forgive others, when we forgive ourselves this root can be thwarted and die.

This is something that the Days of Awe are for....this is something that God needed to remind me of. What are my hidden sins? What bitterness do I hide? To whom do I need to extend forgiveness?.....those are conversations between God and myself, but I encourage everyone to engage in those talks with our Father. Even if it is not during these "Days of Awe" or on the Day of Atonement. For there is freedom in forgiveness.

So as I begin this New Year, this new era (of being 40), I reflect on what has happened this past year and all the lessons that I have learned through both "The list" and just living my life, this year has changed my life in such a positive manner and I'm eternally grateful for the lessons that I have been taught.

L’shana Tova

#38 Pedal for People

Biking 20 miles was hardly what I had in mind for #38.....this was a compromise but sometimes life is about compromises.

Doing a bike ride is what started this whole "List" thing to begin with. You see, in June of 2009, I heard about this bike ride called "America's Most Beautiful Bike Ride - Lake Tahoe". It is a 72 mile bike ride around Lake Tahoe. Lake Tahoe is such a beautiful place that when I heard about this ride I decided I had to do it. I thought to myself, if I can do this ride, well then I can do anything, so maybe I should challenge myself?! Maybe I should use my parents idea of doing 40 things in a year (they do it for big anniversary celebration years) and count the ride as one......and thus, "the list" was born.

So last year for my birthday I purchased myself a bike with the intention of getting ready for this ride in June......but life had other plans.

Some of you may know that in December my father was diagnosed with metastatic esophageal cancer. At the time of his diagnosis he was very sick. Even though the ride is in June, you have to register for America's Most Beautiful Ride on January 1st and pay $100 for the ride and it tends to sell out quickly. Due to the curve ball that had been thrown at my family, I had no idea what 6 months down the road would hold for us and the thought of traveling so far away when things were so up in the air, well I decided that perhaps I should look for a ride closer to home.

The benefit of looking for a ride here in Rochester was then I could rope one of my friends (Ms. M)--my ever faithful sidekick, into participating with me. So we decided to do the 40 mile option for the Tour de Cure for Diabetes in Rochester in June.....well, that WAS the plan.

Until, I came home from Ethiopia in late April after being sick in Ethiopia with lingering respiratory illness that lasted 3 weeks and joint pains that lasted months. I felt SO terrible that there was no way I could train and be ready for the first week in June. So we searched for another option.

Pedal for People http://www.pedalforpeople.com/ was a perfect option! It is a flexible charity ride where I set up the ride, the distance, the location, the team, the sponsors.....it just had to be over Labor day weekend and then the monies raised went to the Clean Water Fund for World Vision. Perfect! So I decide that I am going to do 40 miles (for my 40 years of course) on the Saturday of Labor Day weekend.

Until 7/3 I fell in a hole and injured my foot. The injury was severe enough that I had complications and require surgery in September.....So I can't walk at all. The good news? Believe it or not, it does not really hurt to bike.....the bad news? I don't realize this until my leg is so deconditioned that there is NO way I can do 40 miles. SOOOOOOO, I got out on a bike a bit and probably the max I had ever ridden was 10 miles (which is the maximum I have ever ridden bad or good leg!).

The forecast for labor day weekend was Saturday-rains and high winds, Sunday morning rain, Monday beautiful. So we decide to post-pone our ride until Monday morning. Monday morning I get up, and at first the sun is shining and I think hallelujah.......but the sun quickly vanishes and as I am packing things up the clouds roll in and as I drive to meet Ms. M light rain it sprinkling on my car.

Now, I've already decided even though it is cool (its only 60) and slightly raining I'm going. THIS IS THE ONE THING ON THE LIST I HAVE TO DO! No matter what. Even if she follows me in the car and I have to do it alone, I have to do this, I don't know why but I know I must. But I got to her house and her attitude was great, she said....we have biked in the rain before, its no problem. And you know, it WAS no problem, because just as we got outside, the rain stopped!

We had someone drop us and our bikes in the village of Spencerport to start our ride. We then rode along the canal path the entire time. We stopped near the midway point for a refill on water and a little rest (our ride met us with supplies) and then we stopped at Ms. M's house--she lives off the canal for pit stop and then our final destination was Shoen Place, Pittsford where my Odometer clicked the 20 mile mark and we celebrated with lunch at Aladdins.

The weather was perfect. It was not sunny, so you did not have to worry about the sun beating down on you making you hot. It was cool, but not cold so we were comfortable in our light windbreakers and pants. Honestly, what I thought was "crummy" weather ended up being rather pleasant biking weather. The ride along the canal was beautiful in spots and it was nice to see the areas that I had never been to before.

I am proud of myself for riding 20 miles despite the foot injury. And as a friend pointed out to me, if Ms. M rode 20 and I rode 20, well there is the 40 that I needed for my list! I wish I had ridden further, but I guess that is something I will have to strive to do when I'm 40.

This process that enforced that I have what it takes to persevere in the face of adversity when it comes to something that is important to me. For I know........"And we rejoice in the hope of the glory of God. Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us." Romans 5

#36 Kayaking on the Bay

I had planned to go Kayaking some time this summer, but had not gotten to it before my injury. I figured that I was healed enough to go with ADK younger members group who planned an evening out on the Irondequoit Bay.

The weather forecast was sketchy with "possible rain" , but the sun was out so the group decided that it would hold out for our paddle.

I hobbled into the Kayak and my friend and I started to paddle. At the beginning it was very peaceful and it did not seem too difficult, but soon I started to feel it in my arms. I thought, I would be able to do it easily due to being on crutches so long, but thatcrutching uses different muscles.

Kayaking uses your whole body, including your legs, which I don't have right now so I had to really use my upper body. After awhile I started to get fatigued and we still had a bunch to go. While we were heading back, the clouds started to roll in. People were paddling really strongly and I'm dying! Then we started to hear thunder and see lightening off in the distance.....paddle harder....then just when we were almost to shore the sky opened up and the rain poured down!

Next time, I think it would be better to kayak with only few friends, where I could go slower and at my own pace. It was too much pressure to be with a group where people were MUCH better than me and I had to struggle to keep up. Also, I will have to wait until I have a fully functioning body!

#35 Star Gazing

One thing I have never done before is to take the time and really "look up" to the stars. All summer, I have been waiting to do this, and it never seems to work with my schedule (or any one else's) or the sky is not clear enough.

But today, I decided rather last minute to go to the "Star Party" sponsored by the Rochester Astronomy Club , http://www.rochesterastronomy.org/ . I texted different friends to see if they could join me on this adventure, but alas many were already either tucked in for the night or were already out and about so I decided to fly solo for the night.

The "Star Party" was at Northampton Park and I got there around 10pm (which if you know me, is about bedtime!). They had a bunch of the really large telescopes available to look into and people from the club would find things to look at in the sky and tell you all about them.

They showed us many different globular clusters, Nebulae, Andromeda, Jupiter and for the first time I had the Milky Way pointed out to me (and it was visible too!). My Favorite, was the Swan Nebula (see above)....it really is shaped like a Swan!

While they were talking and people were taking turns looking in the telescopes we all kept our eyes to the sky as it was a special evening full of the Perseid Meteor Showers. Some were so bright it was almost like a firework and it left a trail in the sky.

It was a peaceful evening.......a quiet night......one where you realize how BIG the universe is, and how BIG God is........Don't worry, that did not stop me from making a wish on those falling Stars (or in this case meteors)!

#34 Sodus Point Lighthouse Concert Series

This was an impromptu addition to my list. While my Aunt was visiting from Florida my parents and she were going up to the concert series and they wondered if I would like to go.

Since a) I have never been up to the Sodus Point Lighthouse and b) it was a beautiful sunny day and c) the concert series was something I could add to the list I thought sure, why not.

Other than a few grand kids running around, I was one of the youngest as it was mostly a blue hair kind of crowd. The theme of the concert was "Nostalgic Reunion" Swing, Dance Tunes, and mellow Jazz from the 40’s, 50’s and 60’. You can sit your chair and watch the band, but who would want to when you can sit on the other side, hear the same music and look out over the lake. We found a spot under a tree overlooking the lake.

The music was good. As I looked at my Aunt tapping her toe to the music, some them were my Uncle's songs and I felt sad for her. My uncle passed this spring and hearing those songs makes me think of him and I know that she thinks of him whenever she hears the songs. But perhaps she gains comfort from them, for she knows how much he loved them (and her) and would sing them to her? He lived a good life, and he was loved by his wife, oh to have a love like that.

In addition to the concert, I went to the lighthouse and Museum and yes, I climbed up the 52 circular steps into the lens room to see Lake Ontario shoreline....all on crutches!

It was a relaxing afternoon and it was good to spend it with my mom, dad and Aunt. Time with loved ones is precious.........take advantage of it when you can.

#33 Rhinos Game

I have never been to a Rochester Rhinos Game (or even watched a soccer game---I know, I know--the World Cup was this year and I somehow did not get into it!) Anyway, I decided that before the season was over I would venture out to a game, http://www.rhinossoccer.com/.

A few of my friends and I went to the game on a Wednesday night. The weather was perfect for a game and thus I guess we should have expected it, but we were not quite prepared for the hoards of people getting their tickets the day of the game (like us). So many in fact that we were almost 45 minutes late for the game!

Honestly, I'm not sure there is a bad seat in that Stadium. Our tickets were a whole $10 and our view was good. The Rochester Rhinos took on the Portland Timbers at Marina Auto Stadium in front of 6,978 fans.

I can't say that I learned tons more about soccer, The Rhinos went on to defeat the Timbers 1-0. It was much more about the whole experience. Hanging with my friends on a beautiful evening, having a burger and fries....and yeah watching a little soccer too :).

#32 Over the Edge

Yes, I went over the edge and I can't believe that I was crazy enough to do it!.

So what was this all about? Well I was watching TV one day and I saw that they were repelling down the side of a building here in Rochester for a charity and I thought "That is so cool, I want to do that"...but it was too late to raise $1000 to do it here in Rochester so I searched for places in NY with upcoming opportunities.

What I found was Over the Edge for Special Olympics of Western New York's Event in Niagara Falls. http://overtheedge.kintera.org/faf/home/default.asp?ievent=419756 . The event was scheduled for July 29th and I had to raise $1000 for Special Olympics before the first week in July in order to assure my chances to go "Over the Edge".

Special Olympics is something that was near and dear to my heart because when I was a little girl my mom volunteered with Special Olympics and I can remember going to see her volunteering. When I was older, my first job out of college was with the ARC and those guys were so special to me, that I wanted to do this in honor of them.

My friends are amazing!!! They gave and gave and gave and I reached and surpassed the $1000 mark!

Then, only 4 weeks before the event I fell and injured my ankle. But I was determined that no matter what, I was going to go and do this. I figured, I don't really need a foot to repel, I need my arms mostly.

The day of the event arrived and Ms. M and headed off to Niagara Falls. All of the sudden the nerves kicked in as we were driving. When we got there, I thought for sure they would say something to me about my crutches.....but this was for Special Olympics after all, so nope....no one said a word! Once I was escorted up to the suite where they prepped me and they put the harness on me all the nerves disappeared, they just left and I was calm (almost eerie calm). We went up to the roof for our "lesson".....

When the time came I had to first sit on the edge of the building with my back to the crowd, then stand (try that one leg people!) The guys who were working with me were too funny as we were cracking jokes about it being their first time doing this etc, etc....But all during this I'm having fun, I'm calm, I'm not even thinking about the fact that in moments I'm going to repel down 27 STORIES!!! THEN the moment of truth......I was asked to sit back like sitting in a chair with my feet on the side of the building, and so I do it. I think I shocked the guy a bit because he asked "are you sure you have never done this before?" No, I reply as I start to descend.....

Remembering to stop and look around, I take a brief moment to look to my left and right (you really can't look behind you very well) and what an awesome view of the Niagara Falls area I had!!! What also was amazing (and very unexpected) was that the building was mirrored so as I repelled I got to see everything around me as I descended---how cool!

I thought it would be very difficult to do because when I had watched the newscaster repel he kept saying how hard it was and he sounded out of breath, but I found it easy. I slowly released with my hands and slowly walked with my legs down the side of the building---I felt like spider woman! I think that the injury actually prepared me for the repel because the 4 weeks on crutches had strengthened my arms and grip so that I was strong enough to perform the task without difficulty. And I was right, I really did not need my feet much, they just lightly touched the building as I traveled down until they met me at the bottom with my crutches.

What an amazing sense of accomplishment to reach the bottom. It is an experience I never would have ever considered doing if it was not for "The List". Although my parents almost killed me (they threated to lock me away prior to the repel) and made me promise to NEVER do it again, I'm so grateful to my friends who supported me and donated to this worthy cause to give me this amazing and unforgettable opportunity.

Going Over the Edge enforced how much I have grown in the past year in trusting God. I used to be so afraid of heights and I cannot even fathom wanting to do this in the past, but I have overcome those fears and stepped out in a kind of faith and trust that filled me with a sense of strength and joy and peace....... for that, I am truly blessed!

#31 Up the Mast

This addition to the list was an impromptu event and truly what "Living live Abundantly" has become about. My friends and I went out sailing on Sodus Bay one beautiful Sunday afternoon and my girlfriend's husband said, "anyone want to go up the mast when we are done?".......Soooo, of course, I said "I'll do it".

Now, this happened 2 weeks after spraining my ankle, but this did not stop me! So with the help of the guys , yhey strapped my butt in the little swing, I gripped with my thighs and good leg and pulled with my arms until I reached the top as the men hoisted me up! (they really did all the work).

I thought I would be a bit scared, but I wasn't. It was great! The view from the 60 foot mast out onto the bay was really neat.

Then, those funny guys....they strapped up all the lines and walked away leaving me clinging to the tops of the mast as I just giggled KNOWING that they were not REALLY gonna leave me hanging but it was funny none the less.

I think the best part about the whole thing was how unique of a task it was and how spontaneous it was. I like things planed out, and for me to do something truly spontaneous and a little daring was exhilarating!

#30 Benches on Parade

I had this whole plan in my head to have an old fashioned road trip....people piled in the car, maps, snacks and a whole lot of fun searching for the benches on parade. http://benchesonparade.com/

But one by one my friends bailed on the day with the exception of my faithful "Living Life Abundantly" sidekick Maggie. We did have a few people who joined up with us for part of the experience, but she is the only one who has stuck out for the whole 117 benches! (which as of this posting has not yet been completed....but don't worry--we will!)

We set out on Saturday morning with the thought that we could see all of them in one day. I had spent nearly 3 days mapping out on a map, printing off directions, putting it into an excel sheet with the most efficient manner to get around the city to see them all....we were all set (HA!)

Major snafu #1....drove around MCH for a good 20 minutes or more looking for the bench....never found it that day. Apparently it is inside the hospital near the gift shop, tucked deep in a little nook...obscure?!. Then it started to drizzle, and the rain pretty much stayed with us no matter where we drove for the REST OF THE DAY! So much for a forecast of isolated and scattered showers...how about being socked in all day long.

Second large snafu was at RIT. There was a graduation going on and the bench was near that area so they had all the parking blocked off. We had to park WAY away from it and we started running because we were so behind already in the day.

The most frustrating thing about the experience was the amount of benches that were locked inside buildings. We wasted a lot of time looking for one at Hilton High School until I finally looked in a window and THERE IT WAS! From them on, we realized if we really could not find it....well it was inside. Some we could see through windows, but some we could not--which was super frustrating.

We went all around St. John Fisher College, but could not find the bench, it is probably tucked in some little courtyard....will just have to go back another day because after wasting a half hour, you just give up!

We especially appreciated when the bench matched the location. For example, the one at Golisano children's Hospital is decorated with their theme...or the one at RIT was decorated with RIT things (including their hockey team)--that one was Maggie's Favorite.

Maggie's friend Andy joined us for a few in the Pittsford area and then Jen joined us in the Victor area (which gave us a little more variety in the photo department)....you can only take so many photos of the same 2 people. Poor Maggie, I made her pose in a few of them doing funny things.

We discovered that there is NO way you can do them all in one day....well you could, but we were not going to. So after 62 benches and 165 miles and almost 10 hours we said goodnight to the benches for one day and picked it up the next day.

Sunday we started out to the city part of the bench tour (we had done all the burbs on Saturday). Again we found 4 that we believe are locked inside buildings and Frontier Field. HELLO??? It is very frustrating that they want you to see them all, but then they don't make them accessible.

We ended up stopping and not doing Canandaigua ones this weekend, as poor Maggie has a life outside "my list" and we will hopefully do them next weekend. Sunday we spent 4 hours, drove 20 miles, but walked 11,005 Steps (we did the ones in the city, so we walked most of it).

So we had 8 in Canandaigua left to see......6 in Rochester that are either locked up and I cant see, or that I cant find....hmmm, might be a weekday project!

The following weekend, I met up with Maggie and her parents to finish up the ones in Canandaigua. The ones in town were relatively easy to locate then we had to Journey out to Bristol Harbour for the final location! Once they were all found we celebrated with a glass of wine at the NYS Wine and Culinary Center. We sat out on the deck and relaxed looking out over the lake........ahhhhh. On our drive back, we found the one at St. John Fisher that we had difficulty locating the weekend before. Leaving us 5 that we have not seen!

Overall, I think the concept is a great one. We saw ALL different parts of Rochester (some that Im NOT so sure that you really want to be advertising for Rochester though as we drove from one to the other). There were some things I never saw before. Some cute little parts of the city, restaurants, shops, venues, beautiful buildings (who knew MCH was so beautiful!)... I just wish that the people who created the website for benches had done a better job putting up the addresses and locations, and THEN have difficulty finding thing. I also don't think that they should be locked inside buildings, so that people can enjoy them on weekends when families might actually get out and go searching for them. A person should not have to spend 3 days mapping things out, going 2 different places to find the names of benches/sponsors/addresses etc...and links to maps...they should all interface. Also some of the benches have been moved and they have not updated their website.

The benches are beautiful, we want people to go out and see them. It is sad that when Maggie and I asked people where the bench was we often got a blank stare. At one of the malls a person said, oh I know where it is, go out of the store and turn left.....she directed us to a REGULAR mall bench. COME ON PEOPLE! Do Rochesterians really not look outside when they walk down the street? Do they not pay attention to the art around them....we are so blessed in this city. It is rich in art! ENJOY!

Update as of 9/9/10....All the benches have been found and seen...including those that were locked up and indoors! The task might have taken 2 months and multiple days, but I was able to go and see all 117 benches!

#29 Orienteering

I wondered what Orienteering was all about so my friend Courtney and I ventured out to Mendon Ponds Park on Father's Day (Both our dad's were not in Rochester) to try it out with the Rochester Orienteering Club http://roc.us.orienteering.org.

What is orienteering? Well essentially you use a map and maybe a compass to locate a series of flags/locations where you punch your card to prove that you found the location. It is a race against the clock (and therefore against others)

We decided to do "White" since it was easy and was recommended for beginners. We set out and had a doozie of a time finding the first marker. We were in the right area but looked and looked and looked and could not find it. It was hidden back in the brush and courtney was just about to go into the brush to find it when a group of guys came up behind us and found it (thus leading us to find it). The next one was easier to find and since we were so close to the group of young men, we decided to hang out for a few minutes to let them get way ahead of us so that we did not feel like we were just following them from marker to marker.

From then on the markers were very easy to find as they were essentially along the sides of trails or paths. Again, a father and son came up behind us and we allowed them to pass us and we sat down and took a breather in the shade and ate a snack for a few minutes (TOTALLY Killing our time).

We stayed on the pathes to find the markers and never cut through the woods (although we suppose you could have if you really wanted to). We felt that it was a little too easy, but it was a good way to see what Orienteering was about --plus I dont really know how to use my compass very well and I have a feeling the next one up uses the compass a bit more.

It was a great way to take a hike with a purpose. We hiked for about an hour and never was bored because you are looking for something the whole time which is nice.

Our time was terrible, http://roc.us.orienteering.org/results/results2010_0620.shtml . It was because we waited to let the other teams pass us to make it "harder" on ourselves. Plus, it was not a race for us, it was a just a day of fun. I was really impressed with the organization of the club and how they had water and treats for the participants at the end of the course.

My friends and I will definately have to do it again, its a great way to get exercise, be outdoors and have fun!

#28 Raku Pottery

Maggie's Pottery Studio http://www.studiosalespottery.com/ was having a special event doing Raku Pottery. I have done lots of types of pottery before, but never Raku pottery.

Raku pottery is a firing process that uses both fire and smoke to create unique patterns and designs. With raku pottery, the piece is first bisque fired. Then, it is glazed and undergoes a raku firing process. The raku firing process requires a special raku kiln that is fueled by propane and reaches temperatures of about 1800°F (about 982°C)and the firing only takes about 30-40 minutes. While the raku pottery piece is still hot and glowing, it is placed inside a metal can full of combustible materials. The heat emitted from the raku pottery causes these materials to catch on fire. After the materials inside the metal can catch on fire, a lid is placed over the can and the raku pottery is sealed inside for about 15 minutes or so. It then is placed into water to cool and freeze the coloring process.

Raku patterns and colors are unpredictable, so you never know what you are going to get when it comes out.

Maggie was working the event, so Leslie and I went down to do Raku. It was a great deal. For $20 I was able to do a vase.

I was aiming for mostly green with a hit of red or orange....but strangely some silverish appearance prevailed, thus I only like one side of the vase. It is still pretty, but a little disappointing.

We are like the vase.....we can put (paint) on all the "Right" colors but depending upon the heat and the conditions and who we are hanging out with....different colors can prevail, and we can have different sides. How do we think God feels about that?..........

#27 Roller Derby

I never saw that movie about the Roller Derby, but I Stumbled upon the fact that Rochester has a Roller Derby League http://www.rocderby.com and decided that my friends and I should check it out as one of my 40 things.

Maggie, Courtney and her friend Courtney and I went to the "Wonder in Maliceland" match which was Home Team A--Rottenchesters vs Home Team B-5-H8-5 At the Genessee Valley Sports Arena. The bout was to benefit Children Awaiting Parents. I like the fact that every one of their bouts is to benefit a charity. That is VERY cool!

We decided against the "Suicide" seats.....they are called suicide seats, need I say more?!

It was PACKED.....and HOT. We tried to figure out the game and the rules. We kinda got a handle on it jammers....blockers. But it really did not grab our attention.

It was interesting and maybe if we had someone with us who knew the game and could get us engaged in it, or if we knew the players and maybe if it was not so hot we would have stayed (it was REALLY hot in there--the kinda hot that makes you nauseous)....but we decided at half time that we came, we experienced, we were done.

Maybe IT IS more exciting in the suicide seats?

#25 Camp Cory Peace Weekend & #26 Zip Line/High Ropes Course

3/1/10: Today I registered for Camp Cory Peace weekend http://www.rochesterymca.org/campcory/body-peace.aspx. Last year I talked my friends into going with me, but then I was too sick after my gallbladder surgery and I was unable to go.....SO that is why it appeared on the list as Tara and Maggie said it was definitely a MUST DO!

6/4/10: The weekend is finally here! Maggie and I took the day off from work and decided to go down early to hike the Keuka outlet trail. We then checked in for our weekend adventure of feeling like a "Kid at Camp" again! (only grown up style).

We had our own cabin and it was Maggie, Tara & myself plus Maggie's friend Emily and Nathalie a friend that Tara and Maggie had made at Camp last year. We each got the bottom bunk (so no climbing in the middle of the night) and there was a bathroom with a shower right in the cabin!!! Talk about luxury!!

Each woman was given a welcome gift of a latte mug for there was cappuccino available every morning........yes, ladies this is NOT your typical camp because here was my schedule (everyone's was slightly different as there were so many choices of things to do)

Friday:
--Hors d'oeudvres & welcome
--Dinner (and LET me tell you---This was NOT camp food, but gourmet food!!!!)
--Wine Tasting (and make your own wine charm so you dont lose your wine glass)& Dessert
--Campfire (but it started to rain....so I bailed)

Saturday:
--Sunrise yoga
--Breakfast--with everything and anything you could THINK about wanting to eat
--I went and did the Zipline. I was going to climb the rock wall up to the zipline, but I had mud on my shoes from the rain and I kept slipping so I ended up going to the top via the ladder. It was not scary at all....again you just take a leap in faith! I'm definately getting over my fear of heights. (Tara went with me and did Archery while I waited in line) and she photographed me. I think Maggie & Emily played tennis and Nathalie went to TaiChi or Pilates
--Emily and I did the Great Cory Challenge which was like the Amazing race. We had tasks that we had to do and we had to RUN all over camp to do them. We RAN like crazy and I don't know how, but a lot of teams beat us despite the fact that they were not running (we think they cheated)...the rest of the ladies went hiking during that time as they did the challenge last year
--Lunch
--I did a beading project making a sun catcher
--I did the Entire High Ropes Course. Tara did part of it with me (especially after the blind woman came and got in line). Hardly anyone else showed up to do the course so they let me do the entire thing. It was fun! Poor Maggie was nervous just watching me up there. I think the only time I got nervous was once when the wire got stuck and I could not move forward or backward and I was on a static wire and I was thinking---HOW ARE THEY GONNA GET ME DOWN if this thing does not move forward?? But it eventually moved.
--Tara, Maggie, Nathalie and I went Sailing
--Finally a little R&R......a glass of wine (which was contraband) and my book on the porch of our cabin before dinner........ahhhhhhh
--Dinner: which was not a buffet, but we had to preselect and the camp staff served us.....Mine was NY Strip topped with arugula and Asiago, finished with Shallot-Chive compound Butter served with Summer Squash and Garlic-chedder Smashed Potatoes.That was after Soup and Salad of course......This was NOT a weekend to go on a diet
--Live music & Ice cream

Sunday:
--Zumba
--Morning Devotion
--Brunch

Then the weather shifted and the rain started and the temperature dropped......so we decided to say our goodbyes to a wonderful weekend of fun, friendship and tons of recreation and head home. But we will be back next year!

#23 Women Rock & #24 Memorial day

Today Maggie and I took a road trip to Seneca Falls to the National Women’s Hall of Fame and the Women’s Rights National Historical Park.
Our first stop was the National Women’s Hall of Fame (http://www.greatwomen.org/home.php), “Showcasing great women….Inspiring all!” The Hall of Fame was created in 1969 and pays tribute to some of the greatest women in the history of the United States. Inside the Hall, there are posters on each woman with a small biography listing her contribution to society. Some led the way in women’s rights, government, the humanities, the arts, athletics, business, education, philanthropy, religion, science and medicine. It is a lot of reading, but all very interesting. The admission to the Hall of Fame is $3 per person, but we had a coupon, so it cost us a whopping $1.50 for each of us to enter!

Our next stop was the Visitor’s Center for the Women’s Rights National Historical Park (http://www.nps.gov/wori/). There is no longer a charge to go to the sites of this Park. The Visitor Center is a beautiful building showcasing an exhibit on the history of Women’s Rights and a life-size sculpture of some of the individuals who attended the first Women’s Rights Convention in Seneca Falls on July 19 and 20, 1848. The Convention took place at the Wesleyan Chapel, which is next to the Visitor’s Center, and is currently under renovation. There are a few other places that you have drive to that are part of the park and we decided to visit them after lunch.

After lunch we went to Elizabeth Cady Stanton House. Elizabeth Cady Stanton is believed to be the one who was the driving force of the Convention and she was an important leader in the women's rights movement. The final location was the M'Clitock House which is important because it is where the Declaration of Sentiments was drafted. The Declaration of Sentiments is the document that was presented at the Convention. It is based upon the Declaration of Independence and proclaimed that “all men and women are created equal”.
I feel as a woman that it is important for me to go and see things like this. Learn about the women who paved the way for me and to CELEBRATE them. It was not that long ago that I was in High school and I was told by a guidance counselor that I “did not need to take a full course load because I was a girl”….yes, truly! And as I travel to other countries where women are treated “less than” I remember how far we have come thanks to these women and I’m so very grateful. I do however, realize that in some arenas here in the US and globally there is much yet to go.

While we were in Waterloo at the M’Clitock house, we discovered that Waterloo was the birthplace of Memorial Day, and they have a Memorial Day museum (http://www.waterloony.com/MdayMus.html). WELL, since it IS Memorial Day Weekend, we HAD to go. So, an impromptu addition to my list ………..making it #24! They ask for a $3 donation to enter. Memorial Day was created out of the Civil War. In 1865, Henry C. Wells, a local Druggist, proposed that a commemoration be held to honor the sacrifice of those who died in the war, and on May 5, 1866 the first Memorial Day was held.

Our day was rich in history. We are so blessed in NY to have all of this right in our own backyard….how many don’t ever take advantage of it? How many don’t even know that history pivotal to this country that happened right here in NY or who these important women and individual were or what they did?.......it’s all there for us to see and learn from and for a whopping $4.50 admission for all the things we did all day!.......come on America!

#22 Donating my hair

Today I cut nearly 10 inches off my hair to donate it to www.childrenwithhairloss.us . I debated about which organization to donate it to, but they are a small independent organization and I thought that since they were not as stringent as the "big" players I would give them my hair since they appeared to be doing good work for some suffering children. Well, obviously I have been planning it awhile (since I have had to grow my hair out for awhile now) and my hair dresser has been helping by coloring only the top of my head (which I did not donate) and patiently trimming only a tiny bit off each time I went for months and months now. So what made me want to do this? Back in September when I started making my list, God prompted me to put this on my "secret list". I kept it a secret until recently because I was not doing it because "I'm a good person" etc. etc..., but simply because God told me to do it. You see, if you ask me what is the one physical attribute that I most prize myself on, I will tell you.......MY HAIR. Thus, God has asked me during this 40 things I must do before I turn 40, was that I needed to give that up. I needed to sacrifice it to benefit others. And because I don't want the glory for this, because it is God to told me to do this--He needs to get the Glory, I really did not want to tell people I was planning on doing this until right before (or right after)I did it, cause many people just DONT understand all that. Why now?, why not in June when I initially planned on doing it? Well coming back from Ethiopia I felt it was time for some changes in me and this was the perfect time for that change, so today was the day. Was I nervous? Apprehensive maybe, but not nervous. I trust Rachael, and as with every task that God has placed on this list of 40 things.......I had peace, almost a little too much peace cause Rachael told me I needed to be more excited :). I love the change, and I am excited, I like the peace.......its good to feel the quiet..................

#20 Travel and See Ethiopia

On April 1, I set off to Ethiopia for a Journey of a Lifetime! You see, I have traveled before to Europe, the Caribbean and Central America, but this was my first trip to Africa.

My biggest fear about Ethiopia was that I was not going to be able to handle the poverty and illness that I would see there. I was worried that when I saw the “starving children of Ethiopia" that I would cry and cry and be whomped by what I was going to see once I got there. But it’s amazing how when you turn it all over to God, how he can make it ok. Not once did I cry over with what I saw. I felt totally at peace the entire time. I saw Ethiopia through God’s eyes. I was not overwhelmed by Ethiopia. The people are beautiful and gentle and kind, the countryside spectacular. I expected more poverty, more something......but that's not what I saw.......They are a very tidy and organized people and take a lot of pride in their appearance and their country, it is very clean. I didn't mind when the children stare in these small towns for I really was the ONLY white person in many towns (and Michael the only Asian)....they yell....YOU YOU YOU and CHINA,CHINA, CHINA at us or foreigner in Amharic but from the little ones its cute.


I got all my shots, packed all the medications....Although I had EVERYTHING that I thought I needed (or could want)....I felt not quite ready when it came down to going and really could have used a few days more of preparation (I'm a preparer!). The night before I was up until wee hours of the night finishing everything and I barely slept, but I guess it was a good thing as I slept my way to Egypt and then Ethiopia!

I was traveling over to Ethiopia with Team 1 (the first team to go to Langano) and Michael a member of Team 2, a Physician who works in another HIV clinic here in Rochester, and my traveling companion for the vacation part of my trip.


4/3/10
We arrived at something like 3 something AM in Addis Ababa without any problems! The only glitch coming through customs was the I-stat machine that I was carrying (a special machine to test blood--that was worth over $10,000)--but once I took it out and explained it etc, they let us pass. Dan and Kim met us and brought us to SIM Headquarters for our first shower in 2 days (It was GLORIOUS!) and a nap.

We then headed out with Team 1 to Debre Zeit (Mount of Olives) to Babogaya, SIM's Rest and Conference Center, to spend the Easter Holiday weekend as everything shuts down and there is no way any of us can travel anywhere. Along the way, we saw people getting ready for their traditional Easter feast with a HUGE market for cattle, sheep and lamb. Easter is the one time of year that everyone will eat a big meal and the children get spoiled with new clothes etc.

Babogaya is a beautiful place of peace and relaxation where the missionaries used to be able to come and refuel. With a lake, flowers, birds--a paradise, however due to a tragedy it is currently closed except for by special permission. So pray that it will be one day be restored to its original intent. The only NOT so peaceful thing about it was night time when the hyenas outside the compound howled all night long and then the Islamic chanting began. The BEST piece of advice I got before I left on my trip---EAR PLUGS....I had a whole bag of them!

4/4/10: Resurrection Sunday
Happy Easter! We awoke and had a lovely breakfast that we made together then traveled back to Addis Ababa to go to church at IEC (International Evangelical Church). Then we had a traditional Ethiopian Feast at Hotel Ghion. Yummmmmy! After lunch, Andrea (Kim and Dan's Daughter who was ending her visit to Ethiopia) wanted to show us her Boarding school.

4/5/10: Michael and I venture off on our adventure. At 5am, Dan dropped us off on the Selam Bus to Dessie. It is a "tourist" bus from Addis to Dessie where the HIV clinic is that Michael worked before. It was supposed to be 9 hours,but it took 10 but it was actually air conditioned, was like a greyhound, they served us a biscuit and juice for breakfast, stopped for 25 minutes for lunch and took 2 "bush" breaks.....we befriended a couple who are here volunteering who had a guide working for them and their guide has totally helped us set things up for the rest of our trip!!!! a TOTAL BLESSING (as we were winging it a bit---those of you who know me know that was definitely stretching me!).

The scenery was breathtaking. Sometimes we were so high that we were above the clouds, the hills and mountains reminded me of Lord of the Rings. Depending upon where we were, the huts may have been made from straw or from rock. At times you felt like you were back in medieval times.

Once in Dessie, we made it to the HIV clinic things had changed in 3 years and they were functioning really well and the people who have AIDS have access to ARV's. Just that morning they saw 140 patients-OH MY!

I had a sweet interaction with a little boy at the AIDS clinic. It was pouring rain and we were stuck there trying to ride out the rain. He was about 2 years old and he stood there clutching his bag of fruit from the nurse. He looked so sad. I sat there smiling at him and trying to make him smile--HE WOULD NOT. I tried and tried....finally I asked him mom if I could give him gum and she said yes. I gave it to him and he stood there with it, just holding it up in the air. So I went back over and broke it in half and put half in his mouth and half in my mouth and started chewing and he chewed. I blew little bubbles.... I made faces.....Nothing. His mom was laughing. One of the clinic ladies came out and made him put down his fruit and shake my hand and say his name---still no smile. A little while later He went to leave and then I got it........he half smiled and said Ciao! and the little blue gum fell out of his mouth...I was so sad for him, I HAD to give him another and he clutched it in his hand as they ran off into the rain.


4/6/10 This afternoon, we hired a driver and started our Journey toward Lalibella. We started off in a van with 3 Ethiopian men, during a torrential rainstorm and the driver was driving WAY too fast and then they pull out the chat (a stimulant that they chew).....and I start feeling WAY out of my comfort zone. This is one of the only times in Ethiopia where I was feeling so uncomfortable and nervous that I almost started to cry because I felt unsafe. But I just started Praying like a mad woman!!!! The rain stopped, one man got out at the next stop and my BP started to decline....

That evening we made it to Woldia. As usual had to get creative with the mosquito nets (there were never hooks to hang them from). And while hanging mine, I squash a mosquito and blood smears across the wall......WHO'S BLOOD???! So much for DEET!

4/7/10 Today was the first time I had no running water in the morning (but it would NOT be the last!). We visited Michael's friend Seada at the HIV clinic in Woldia before heading to Lalibela.

We arrived in the afternoon and I went to see the Rock Hewn Churches there. Michael had seen them before, and we were low on money so I set out to see them with a guide where we climbed up and down rock and mountain for hours. These churches that are from the 12th century and were carved from the ground up. Each of the churches is still manned by a priest who sits there in the dark bothered by tourist all day long (poor things). My guide, Belay, was very informative and helpful and kept me safe all afternoon.That in of it self was a HUGE leap of faith....I had to go off by myself with some stranger and TRUST that he was going to return me to the hotel. Because of COURSE you know he had to ask me if I wanted an Ethiopian husband and didn't I want babies......I promptly made up a story about how I had a boyfriend that I was madly in love with and nope I did not want children (ANYTHING to dissuade this MAN!).

There were lots of street boys in Lalibella who will tell you a story and try to get you to give you money. We met a young man who did not beg, or tell stories, all he wanted was to shine Michael's shoes. He practiced his English and helped Michael with his Amharic and spent a couple hours with us. We ended up giving him money...not because he asked, but because he was willing to work for it.

NO HOT WATER in hotel.....and it is our most expensive hotel.....

4/8/10 Today we flew to Axum. I started not to feel well, so we had to take part of the afternoon off so I could rest, but praise God it passed. We were able to visit the Stellae field and Queen of Sheba's swimming pool with our guide Ephram.

4/9/10 Ephram drove us out to the Quarry where they made the Stellae, then we saw Queen Sheba's Palace, Ezana's Inscription, and the Tombs on Kaleb and Gebrel Meskel (even though they were not buried there--as they were buried in the monasteries, but the tombs were made for them). After a break for lunch --because everything closes for 2 hours when it is HOTTER THAN HOT here, we went to the Church of St. Mary Zion where the Ark of the Covenant is said to be kept. It was neat to be there and I think that it felt like a holy place to me. I could go into the new church, but not the old one--no women allowed--but Michael could. We went to one shop and the market, since this is a touristy place I think they mark the prices up a bit.

It was a great week seeing the historical sights and talking with the people. We tended to eat the same food every day.....because that is all the restaurants have available in these rural places, it is very limited. You ask for something off the menu, but nothing is available. So, we have omelets for breakfast, spaghetti for lunch, Injera with Shiro Feses (almost like a refried bean but runny) for dinner.. but I liked it so no worries.

4/10/10: I developed a rash the night before and it is really bothersome and not going away. Our excursion is over and we have to fly back to Addis Ababa, but of course our flight is delayed and we have no way of getting ahold of Dan who is already at the airport waiting....poor Dan!

Everyone is here!!! Team 1 and Team 2....the whole gang! So we shopped until we dropped then had a lovely dinner and celebrated Gary's Birthday (a day early) before Team 1 flew home.

4/11/10-4/16/10 Time in Langano
This week was mostly about serving, see the Mission's trip blog....but I thought I would write about some of the other moments of the week.

Our home away from home was a beautiful cabin by the lake called the "beach house". It had solar electricity that worked at night (well sometimes) and solar powered water that worked....well 3 of the 5 nights that we were there (and I don't think ever in the morning)...and the problem with that is that our toilets were regular flushing toilets! Team 1 did not have these issues......hmmmm???

The cooks, amazing....Fresh roasted buna at every meal.....home made bread that is to die for.. I ate so well in Ethiopia, I think that if I did not walk so much I would have GAINED weight!

I was out of clothes, and we had no water....I had some rain water, so Terry and I shared it. She rinsed her hair and I washed my clothes , yes in her dirty water (Would you do this normally Susan??--NO! STRETCH!).....then hung my clothes out to dry, and what does it do??? RAIN! So I pull the clothes line inside.....

Our last night we went out on Lake Langano to go "hippo hunting" or should I say spotting. The boat was stuck in the water so we had to get into the water to push it. Don't worry! Langano is safe to swim in ---no Shisto! It was a beautiful night, but my illness had progressed to a point that I was looking (and feeling) like poop!....

Packing up to go home was a hoot.....no electricity....no water. Have you ever tried to put up a clothes line in the rain when it is dark with a headlamp to find out that is a foot to short? when its the exact same same line you took down the day before? Oh and did I mention it's 5:45am!

4/16/10 We headed back to Addis Ababa for our tours at the different hospitals, then headed back to Debre Zeit so that Team 2 could experience the R&R. We tried a new restaurant while there and I tried Asa Lublub.....which I think was a mistake. It was a fish dish which I believe caused me to get sick JUST as I was flying home!

4/17/10 We headed back to Addis Ababa through terrible traffic and then spent the day shopping. Most importantly we went to Mokkaar and I got 2 kilos of Coffee!.....packing...then dinner at Yod where they have dancing and traditional food. Unfortunately my tummy could not really handle Ethiopian food (which I really like)...and I was too exhausted to enjoy the evening. I crawled into bed at 11:45 to sleep for a little over an hour before we had to get up and go to the airport.

4/18/10: The eternal Sunday.......I pretty much slept anywhere and everywhere I could. On a bench, in a chair. Through meals.....that is how I made it home, I slept!

Overall I had wonderful experience. I commented in my other blog about being sick and pressing on. The traveling part went very smoothly. My preparation paid off. The only thing I "forgot" to pack was my slips......really, my skirts were not see-through, so who cared? not me! ......When someone needed xyz....."Susan had it".....that always makes me feel good. I like being the prepared one, I like taking care of people. Everyone was very kind to us. I forgot to say that I dressed very conservatively while Michael and I traveled as Ethiopia is an Orthodox and Muslim country. I always wore a skirt and I wore a bandanna as a head covering. Perhaps that helped, I'm not sure, but men treated me with respect. With that one exception, I never felt unsafe (and I even walked down the street once by myself). I felt at home there, I felt at peace there, I felt calm there.